i feel so lonely. If you see someone commenting or posting in a way that does not fit the tone of this subreddit, please report them and one of the mods will review the comment or post and respond accordingly. Rendered by PID 20040 on r2-app-02b3e9ac3f5a31c62 at 2021-01-09 01:29:29.603524+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: GB. Reminder: After posting a submission, check the new section. Women Find 80% Of Men Unattractive, Says Crazy Study. Her weight problems, on the other hand, may also impact her fertility; For this reason, most guys don’t usually go for women who have a larger waist-to-hips ratio. ... girlfriends, etc., because they are attractive men – at least to somebody. So, if you want to know whether guys think you’re a 0 or a 10, take this quiz and we’ll let you know! I can say from absolute experience that this is not true. In one word, confidence. I'm 27 years old and now sober for the first time in 12 years. I don’t think anyone here is gonna be able to change you’re mind about your self image. WHY?! You don't have to go as deep as Scarlett Johansson's voice, but her voice might be more attractive to most men than, say, Kim Kardashian's voice. Books, baby! It is something like this : Girl: Hi Me: Hey, How are you doin’ ? But yeah, approaching someone where they can't really escape because they're doing something and don't really have any alternatives sucks because making an escuse means they have to avoid something like a bus to get to work or their gym where they pay a membership fee and it's really hard to get out of that. ... I’m An Attractive, Successful Woman And Men Don’t … Some guys lack communication skills to approach women and think it has to be in a certain setting. It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. but that doesnt change the fact that i am ugly and men want women that are pretty.. i don't believe that people my age focus on character. It's unattractive to listen to someone explain how lost they are if they don't have a plan to get on track. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Remember, foundation is supposed to be invisible to others and blend in with your skin. I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. Cold distant abusive father. Requests for suggestions about financial troubles are welcome. it will help me know those i should be making an effort for. This isn’t done by adding on layers to try and become a different person. 2 years ago. Remember, foundation is supposed to be invisible to others and blend in with your skin. ... nobody my age seems to find me attractive/approaches me... What am I doing wrong? Am I going to be single and unwanted for the rest of my life?? There might be one or two dudes out there who are into the blue arm pit hair and multiple facial piercings. Reply Link. I'd only approach if I get the right signals, if not then I wouldn't try. 8 Questions | By JasmineB98 | Last updated: Nov 6, 2020 | Total Attempts: 5118 . Guys think you’re out of their league. I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. Why? [–]SirMustache007 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (0 children). every time i see a pretty woman i get so fucking jealous. Men, on the other hand, have a predisposition to find women attractive. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. i was always that "shy ugly girl" and i hate myself for it. Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. Men really appreciate a skilled and committed lover. (I was polite, but I was mid panic attack - I was in the store during store rush hour and I don't normally go out during those hours, and so all of those people were overwhelming me and I was having issues with trying to be okay with that, when he was sweet and cute and making nice small talk and I was just too on guard. Because that’s a big part of what her unconscious evaluation of your fitness for reproduction is about. The Allure of Attractive Men. It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. Your physical appearance probably has less of an impact on other people's perception of you, in comparison to your behavior. It is a safe place to be where you don’t have to face other people, hold a conversation, or face rejection. [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children). If you act like you have a boyfriend, no guy will want to approach you because they don’t think they’ll have any luck. No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. He tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him. Coming from a former ugly person, it gets better, I promise. What people don't like is when you're being bothersome. Girls usually do not date guys for the … Also, if you don't see your posts because they go straight to spam , let us know. (Accurate) Quiz: How Attractive Are You? Not gay. I felt horrible about it.). Well, most men. Really. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. I have had a shitty college experience at age 25, Putting Boundaries Up w/ Friends and Then Regretting It. However, this doesn’t immediately discount women with pixie cuts or bobs as less attractive. The truth is that you can hit up a conversation with anyone at almost any time! i don't have friends and my family hates me. This subreddit is also great for those who get gratification out of helping others. For me it's very much that I've been trained that women don't want to be approached at work, at the gym, waiting for the bus, etc. this article is absolutely amazing! There may also be some blokes who think your back boobs are sexy. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. This means that to the degree you can, get rid of problems with your teeth, skin, odor, substance issues (believe me – finding out that someone is a smoker the first time you kiss them is bad to experience). I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ 8 Questions | By JasmineB98 | Last updated: Nov 6, 2020 | Total Attempts: 5118 . Thank you. They love it when you love sex and when you are passionate about it as much as they are. First of all, you're making the same mistake that men who get seduced by groups like the redpills, pick-up artists, and incels make. You should just try to find your people right now, even if they’re ever just friends, building a support network is important to getting through life, and college. because im not worth it. Just go for it lol. You don't have the confidence, but seriously, that's fine. Oh, but not for you. College is great because you can find friends, and if you don’t like them you can stop talking to them and never see them again. That's the ONLY way you'll know for certain. Start. I was suffering from horrible anxiety and barely left my room, but I still expected a guy to fall into my lap and constantly wondered if I was completely unfuckable or hideous. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences when it comes to sexual feedback. now guys don't talk to me at all. I realize that we can’t always have it all and finally, I am okay with that. I love them! Looking pretty is not enough. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. So, the very first thing you need to do is: Don’t Look Sick, and Don’t Smell Sick. In my case I don't do it because I am well aware of the fact I'll get rejected. It's made me a lot more cautious about who I choose to interact with both IRL and online. Some people do find particular extremes, muscles, I suppose, or really big breasts, to be attractive. ... THEN women will find me attractive. The only time you should hold off is when she's obviously busy. that was in middle/high school of course. I agree with the old Southern saying that “there is a lid for every pot.” ... Vestus virum reddit. Secondly, it sounds like you're waiting on guys to come after you. I find you attractive and I’d say most guys would think you’re average AT WORST. and then they stop talking to me. Nobody likes me”…. I'm still insecure, still don't regard myself as attractive, and still feel like an outcast in most social situations. It's hard but it works. A. The age of a woman men find most attractive never makes it above 24. noone will ever look at me and think "wow she is cute" or "wow she is pretty". ... That's great and you absolutely have to make … But, I still have to be able to have the ability to want to kiss you and I … While happiness is generally considered attractive on women, they often don't go for guys who appear overly smiley. if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. Dear Ugly, Fat Feminists:I'm sorry men don't find you attractive. Yeah, I learned that those people would never be right for me but it leave it's mark on a man regardless. when i used to be in high school, there were always these pretty girls, long blonde hair, blue eyes, perfect face.. and of course every guy was running after them. In these places, unwanted advances can be considered harassment. You never know. i'm ugly. ... asking you what, in your opinion, is your hottest feature? Server: irc.freenode.net Room: #reddit-mmfb. I agree with some of the principles but there’s a lot of assumptions and generalisations made - makes it hard to fully support him. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others, Press J to jump to the feed. It’s just done so that she will like him. You don't have to have your whole life figured out, but guys don't want to be with someone who is lacking any sort of purpose or direction. #1 Report Thread starter 5 years ago #1 I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend. Again, if I approached girls only based off the fact that they’re attractive or I’m interested I’d be doing nothing but that. Welcome to the life of a wallflower. So it's a mistake and they're just making polite small talk as part of their job or something. For me, I approach girls semi frequently, I’m not scared of rejection, but if they haven’t given me some sign that they’re ok with me walking over to them you can forget it. and that's why i'm alone.. [–]Goodbye_nagasaki 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). It’s done by getting rid of all the bullshit beliefs and habits you have that have been holding you back. We also do not allow submissions posted simply to be funny. Don’t miss that opportunity. This may not happen much, but if you’re naturally a very attractive person, it can be difficult for a guy to approach you. i'd pay a few thousand bucks to be pretty. Furthermore, each man … For example, you say that you "can't speak" and experience inability to communicate normally when attractive men are around. The reason is that people think that you are aware of how gorgeous you are and don’t need any reminding about it. Or, “the clothes make the man.” How you dress signals to … Don't think you can't be the one who aproches them, that may be all you need to do, I am friends with all the girls (and a few of them are telling me what to write right now), so I've seen this before, one of my friend had not been able to do this and I talked to her and tried to get her out of her shell, and she now has a boyfriend, just try to talk to them, they won't bite (they may bite) i feel worthless. If a woman is attracted to you, you can approach her while she's on the toilet and she'll be receptive. it's my nose. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. then i would be a little less ugly than i currently am. So you haven’t had much luck with women and have resigned yourself to believing ‘girls just don’t like me’. if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. If you come across as “oh woe is me. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? And no, none of what I just said is "rape culture." I really like the video, it probably doesn’t resonate as well with girls but man, does he hit the nail on the head. nothing changed. When I was in high school and college I barely noticed the blonde-haired, blue-eyed girls. B. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. I dunno what to do for title but 21M am sad details within, My career has just been ruined due to lockdown, could someone please offer empathy/encouragements/advice on dealing with feelings, but not solutions for the actual situation please, It's so sad I'm only 20 and all I think is about death. It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. However, after about a year of keeping at it I had gone from 210 Lb. and join one of thousands of communities. It's very likely there are some number of guys in the world who think your nose is the hottest thing since Victoria Secret underwear, but there are probably 100 times that number who don't even realize it's any different and who don't understand why you feel bad about it. I don't look. Oh, but not for you. Chill out — you might look hotter. Men don’t just go around and tell every woman what a great lover she is. … Since most girls have, we feel like we can make a pretty safe bet that you have to! I'm super hesitant to approach women cause I've been reject, mocked, and laughed at for even trying. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Others might even think that you are tired of getting too much attention. You probably think it's absurd every time you hear some guy whining about how girls only want muscly rich guys with perfect chins and six-pack abs. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. then even if you are very attractive, most guys won’t bother with you. instead theyre like "uhh.. no thanks, i'll pass". Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. Guys don’t like rejection and if they ask a girl out and she says no, it often takes months before he’ll try again! He tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him . Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. But of course, don't forget about being tactful. So...a grocer approached me last week and I couldn't tell if he was making small talk as part of his job or if it was sincere flirting, but I ended up panicking and "running". © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. If you’re surrounded by guy friends, GWWTAY. Very attractive, don’t find most men attractive. In fact, most men won’t see how they subconsciously prefer certain female body types. I love Matthew Hussey. Have you ever wondered whether guys find you hot or not? So your looks absolutely aren’t the problem. Many attractive women in their 20s reject all but the most attractive and powerful men Many of those rejected men go on to become more attractive and powerful in their 30s and 40s When those women turn 30, they become less marketable and are surprised to learn that the top men don’t want them—because they’re now chasing the young women they used to be I’ve been single for a year and only been asked on two dates - both I had to semi initiate...I’m starting to get resentful about the lack of proper attention I receive. Plenty of men who I personally didn’t find attractive (we all have our ‘types’) spoke to me and I was happy to chat back, because one never knows. ... i think i am a good-looking person but i still want to know if others find me attractive. In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. If you want to help but can't think of the words or don't have time, vote them up to draw more attention to it so that others can find and help them. maybe then someone will talk to me. The problem for Nice Guys is their niceness isn’t sincere. My friends get hit on and I actually see guys checking them out, but never happens to me… No. [–]LovelyPositivity 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children), Not OP but just want to say this is awesome and so are you, buddy! ... owning a set of clubs actually makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). That kind of desperation is not attractive. Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. This weekend I went clubbing with my Asian (who I shall refer as to Una) friend and half Asian/half latina (Dos) friend. too ugly for a committed relationship. I just get so jealous and sad because some women can go out to a simple place such as the grocery store or gas station and have guys ask for their number but that never happens to me. (the reason I posted this pic is so no one here tells me go to the gym because I already do and it hasn't helped me to get a girl to find me attractive after almost a year now) im really just depressed , don't know what to do anymore . If they had gotten some honest feedback and then made some changes, they might have looked exponentially more attractive to men. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. A 2013 study by researchers in Finland, South Africa, the … I wasted my whole life taking drugs. I love when people talk to me at the gym or smile and greet me when I'm out walking. it's the sad truth. I’ve got to have bigger biceps first…” Another example is where a guy is working in a job that he hopes will impress women. but noone wants me. im not worth anything. Guys are looking for signs that you want to be approached, if you can successfully give off these signs they will approach you. i hate looking in the mirror. Wow, you are 27 years old and are convinced that men do not find you attractive. That said, try working on building your confidence. I started to look for other qualities IF the attraction is at least a 6. I don't really know you personally, so I don't know what you are actually like, but your posts implication that your nose is the only reason others wont spend time with you is a tad ridiculous. Things should then work out for you. Guys want to approach you, and they will if they feel that you’ve given them permission to approach. Of course, don't try to change yourself to make anyone happy. During high school, I’d had a terrible crush on a good-looking guy who turned out to be such a jerk that by our senior year, he was flat-out hideous to me, physically and otherwise. Stress. or Create Personality Quiz. The club was having a Peruvian … And, I don’t find younger men mentally attractive. Shutterstock. I don’t believe this is the case - but my friends seem to think that guys will not approach me because they are scared of rejection. Girls who didn't fit a stereotypical beauty mold, some of whom in retrospect had big noses which at the time I never even noticed, could have easily wrapped me around their fingertips if they wanted to. After viewing videos of women walking in both heels and flat shoes, the participants in the study rated the heel-wearing women as "significantly more attractive." I truly feel like this is correctly encompasses the reason guys won’t approach girls. Me … It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. ... It’s the … It's more attractive to look at and feels nicer to touch when it's free of gels or sticky products. We are all into different people, it just takes some of us a while before we can be confident enough to admit it. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. No. If you would like to get off the ban list you can message the mods. I feel confident to assert my boundaries in my career, and I don’t need a guy to constantly bolster my self-confidence as I know I’m an attractive woman. I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. too ugly to be a friend. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. And she says "sadly I'm working :/" and we go back and forth like that until I realize I'm going to die alone. And I'm afraid the answer is to exit your comfort zone and go speak to people. 2. Never. Like someone else said, you could actually be intimidating to guys. Well, guys are just as complicated. ... A self-confident person who doesn’t have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… Watch. Most people may not … More Attractive Quizzes. Actively try and find solutions to your problems rather than consulting internet strangers for pity points. Just fake it, that's what I did. It sounds that you are strong and smart, but short-tempered and improper. I don't know who these men are...but they could be out there. The girls that guys find attractive are the girls that think they themselves are attractive. Conversely, a 20-year-old woman will be most attracted to a 23-year-old-man … So, perhaps it is a negative perspective of life, or consistent negative remarks which drives other people away. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. It's something that spans farther than physical beauty. Barret said in his book that men won’t outright admit that they find the 7:10 body ratio most attractive or that they have a prejudice against big women. Guys don't seem to find me attractive once they get to know me? Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. Men don’t just go around and tell every woman what a great lover she is. i hate myself so much. According to the study, guys found "a female voice sounded attractive when it was breathy" and "moderately high-pitched." Stay away from glittery or shimmering eye makeup and NEVER use clumpy mascara. In the middle of a set at the gym, if she has earbuds or headphones, if she's walking rapidly or running to wherever she's going etc... Just say hi, introduce yourself, make a little smalltalk, be friendly. Question 21 Do you like parties? Have you lost a loved one? Trust me, people mature a lot after high school. (95.3 Kg) to to 123 Lb. Depending on the community, this standard can be unhealthily high. Don’t worry though, there’s a light at the end of this tunnel. I figure I’ll let my career achievements and self-confidence act as natural selection, a way to weed out the men who aren’t right for me. There's nothing wrong with it, however, being like that make guys more reluctant to date you. When I was more mature it was because I genuinely thought we didn't have much of an emotional bond. if i was pretty noone would say "hey let's just be friends". Guys WANT to approach you, but if we approached every girl we though was attractive we’d never get anywhere because that’s all we’d be doing. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. Just because a man is not blowing up your phone, doesn't mean you get to label it as "predatory" behavior. Definitely! too ugly. The best we can offer here is moral support. That said, I don't know if I could date a guy shorter than me (but it would probably be pretty difficult to find … nowadays it's all about the looks. Rep:? Here’s my advice. Like you've internalized their reactions as them losing interest in you, perhaps what's going on is more complicated. If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. What is it that you are doing wrong? Please do not offer or ask for any financial donations. It takes a long time of catching yourself and correcting your thinking to change these inherent beliefs you have about your self, and what your saying aren’t objective truths, their your opinion. Because it's much easier to build a serious relationship with an honest person and there is no risk that they will lie to you. if a guy ever came up to me and said hi, i would think he lost a bet and wouldn't take him seriously. As strange as it sounds, if you are altruistic and you hate lies, then other people find you very attractive. Anecdotal evidence aside, I know for a fact that I don't find "hot" men attractive. they would AT LEAST try to have sex with me. If your post isn't up within a couple of minutes, copy the link of your submission and message the mods with it to let us know it's in the spam filter. To learn more about how to flirt without being sleazy , get more dates, develop confident body language, and overcome your approach anxiety in just 5 days, check out The Art of Charm Bootcamp. Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. Please don't expect guys to just approach you without you having to put any effort into the social situation. These comments will be removed and you can and will be removed for the subreddit. Try just being friends and getting to know them first and if you guys click then make that approach happen. Otherwise, we will try to check as often as possible to get it out. After viewing videos of women walking in both heels and flat shoes, the participants in the study rated the heel-wearing women as "significantly more attractive." Indeed, it is not just guys on the internet who rate girls – it is also guys whom you know in real life. Until then, happy hunting. This is so depressing. I was a lot like you in highschool, except guys who knew I liked them used me to get answers on tests and shit like that. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". I thought uni would be a great chance to meet people, but it seems everyone except me is hooking with with … Quit waiting on the guys in your world to sort themselves out. Please report comments you find to be overly rude or offensive. Wrong! If you are removed for being too harsh in posts and you believe it was done unfairly, please message the mods. Instead, I focus on getting to know someone in a shared activity, and only after I know them would I then approach them. Do guys stumble over to talk to you? Self confidence is extremely attractive. Just a new way to view rejection. Because strong women intimidate boys, and excite men, and that’s what I’m after. Writer. I'm a 5'2" heterosexual woman and have no problem dating short men. This weekend I went clubbing with my Asian (who I shall refer as to Una) friend and half Asian/half latina (Dos) friend. It may be helpful to talk to a professional who is good at words and stuff to help you end it. Spending time with someone who is always a sad sock becomes draining over time, and eventually they pull away so that they can spend time with other, more positive individuals. everyone either treats me like i'm a piece of shit, or like i don't exist. For me I finally broke past my fear of rejection about 2 years back. i wish i had money for a nose job. I am fundamentally unattractive to women, so please don’t tell me that dating is a numbers game, to gain confidence, or to put myself … Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of … Go to first unread Skip to page: lachachacha Badges: 16. I've recently lost my significant other because she left me, and now i miss her so much, but she's with another person. If you will allow me to make an educated guess, it is that men do find you attractive! Most attractive women are attracted to abusive men. Be Supportive If what you're saying is having a negative impact on someone seeking support, your comments may be removed, and you may be banned. The filter has a mind of its own. that was in middle/high school of course. Sure, guys message me on Instagram all the time, but when it comes to a real life scenario, I rarely get approached, unless it’s by really cocky/overly confident guys (which I’m not interested in). The good news for women is that most young men find most young women attractive. Don’t let the sheer fear of rejection stop you from getting a nice girlfriend. Let me give you an example. I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. [–]Depressed_Maniac 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children). The people who claim you shouldn't approach in [situation] are a tiny but vocal minority. In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. 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